top of page
Search

Understanding EMDR and Its Benefits for Anxiety

  • bkuchinsky
  • Dec 1, 2025
  • 4 min read

Anxiety can feel like an unrelenting storm, disrupting daily life and clouding the mind. For many, traditional therapies may not provide the relief they seek. This is where Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) comes into play. EMDR is a unique therapeutic approach that has gained recognition for its effectiveness in treating anxiety, particularly when rooted in trauma. In this post, we will explore what EMDR is, how it works, and the benefits it offers for those struggling with anxiety.


Eye-level view of a serene therapy room with calming decor
A peaceful therapy room designed for EMDR sessions.

What is EMDR?


EMDR is a psychotherapy technique developed by Francine Shapiro in the late 1980s. It was initially designed to help individuals process traumatic memories, but over time, its application has expanded to include various anxiety disorders. The core principle of EMDR is to help clients reprocess distressing memories, allowing them to integrate these experiences into their broader life narrative.


The Eight Phases of EMDR


EMDR therapy is structured into eight distinct phases:


  1. History Taking: The therapist gathers information about the client's history and identifies specific targets for processing.

  2. Preparation: The therapist explains the EMDR process and establishes a safe environment for the client.

  3. Assessment: The client identifies negative beliefs associated with the target memory and formulates positive beliefs they wish to adopt.

  4. Desensitization: Through bilateral stimulation (often in the form of guided eye movements), the client processes the traumatic memory.

  5. Installation: The therapist helps the client reinforce positive beliefs.

  6. Body Scan: The client scans their body for any residual tension or discomfort related to the memory.

  7. Closure: The therapist guides the client back to a state of equilibrium, ensuring they feel safe and grounded.

  8. Reevaluation: In subsequent sessions, the therapist assesses the progress and addresses any remaining issues.


How Does EMDR Work?


The exact mechanisms behind EMDR are still being studied, but several theories exist. One prominent theory suggests that the bilateral stimulation used in EMDR mimics the brain's natural processing during REM sleep, where memories are consolidated and integrated. This stimulation may help clients reprocess traumatic memories, reducing their emotional charge and allowing for healthier coping mechanisms.


The Role of Bilateral Stimulation


Bilateral stimulation can take various forms, including:


  • Eye Movements: The most common method, where clients follow the therapist's fingers as they move back and forth.

  • Tactile Stimulation: Alternating taps on the client's hands or knees.

  • Auditory Stimulation: Sounds played alternately in each ear.


This stimulation is believed to facilitate communication between the left and right hemispheres of the brain, promoting a more balanced processing of memories.


Benefits of EMDR for Anxiety


EMDR offers several benefits for individuals struggling with anxiety, particularly those with trauma-related anxiety. Here are some key advantages:


Rapid Results


Many clients report significant improvements in their anxiety symptoms after just a few sessions of EMDR. Unlike traditional talk therapies, which can take months or years to yield results, EMDR often leads to faster relief.


Addressing Root Causes


EMDR focuses on the underlying causes of anxiety, often rooted in past traumatic experiences. By processing these memories, clients can reduce their anxiety symptoms and develop healthier coping strategies.


Reducing Emotional Distress


Clients frequently experience a decrease in emotional distress associated with traumatic memories. This reduction can lead to a greater sense of control and empowerment in daily life.


Enhancing Coping Skills


Through the EMDR process, clients learn to develop and reinforce positive beliefs about themselves. This shift in mindset can enhance their overall coping skills and resilience in the face of anxiety.


Safe and Non-Invasive


EMDR is a non-invasive therapy that does not require medication or extensive preparatory work. This makes it an appealing option for individuals seeking a natural approach to managing anxiety.


Who Can Benefit from EMDR?


EMDR is suitable for a wide range of individuals, including:


  • Those with PTSD: EMDR is particularly effective for individuals who have experienced trauma and are struggling with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

  • Individuals with Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): Those who experience chronic anxiety can benefit from EMDR's focus on processing underlying issues.

  • People with Specific Phobias: EMDR can help individuals confront and reprocess fears related to specific situations or objects.

  • Children and Adolescents: EMDR has been adapted for younger populations, making it a versatile option for families seeking therapy for their children.


What to Expect in an EMDR Session


If you're considering EMDR therapy, it's essential to know what to expect during a session. Here’s a brief overview:


  1. Initial Consultation: The therapist will discuss your history and symptoms, helping to identify specific targets for EMDR processing.

  2. Establishing Safety: The therapist will ensure you feel comfortable and safe throughout the process.

  3. Processing Memories: During the desensitization phase, you will focus on a specific memory while engaging in bilateral stimulation.

  4. Reflection and Integration: After processing, you will discuss your experiences and feelings with the therapist, allowing for integration of the new insights gained.


EMDR vs. Traditional Therapy


While traditional talk therapies focus on discussing thoughts and feelings, EMDR takes a more experiential approach. Here are some key differences:


  • Focus on Memory Processing: EMDR emphasizes processing traumatic memories rather than solely discussing them.

  • Bilateral Stimulation: The use of bilateral stimulation is unique to EMDR and is not typically found in traditional therapies.

  • Speed of Results: Many clients find EMDR to be more efficient, often achieving results in fewer sessions compared to traditional talk therapy.


Potential Challenges and Considerations


While EMDR is generally well-tolerated, some clients may experience challenges during the process. Here are a few considerations:


  • Emotional Distress: Processing traumatic memories can evoke strong emotions. A skilled therapist will help you navigate these feelings safely.

  • Not for Everyone: EMDR may not be suitable for individuals with certain conditions, such as severe dissociation or active substance abuse. A thorough assessment by a qualified therapist is essential.

  • Finding a Qualified Therapist: It's crucial to seek a licensed therapist trained in EMDR to ensure a safe and effective experience.


Conclusion


EMDR is a powerful therapeutic tool that can provide significant relief for individuals struggling with anxiety, particularly when rooted in trauma. By focusing on the underlying causes of anxiety and utilizing bilateral stimulation, EMDR helps clients process distressing memories and develop healthier coping mechanisms. If you or someone you know is seeking relief from anxiety, consider exploring EMDR as a potential option.


Take the first step towards healing by reaching out to a qualified EMDR therapist today. Your journey to a calmer, more empowered self may be just a session away.

 
 
 

Comments


Dragonfly Restorative Counseling, LLC

 

Bernadette@dragonflyrestorativecounseling.com

 

386-342-2172 (VM only-calls returned within 48 hours-do not use if in crisis).

Disclaimer: Dragonfly Restorative Counseling does not provide emergency or crisis services. In an emergency call 911. For immediate support in the U.S. call/text 988.

 

© 2026 by Dragonfly Restorative Counseling. All rights reserved.

 

​Bernadette Kuchinsky is a 

Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) licensed in the following states:

 

*Florida-SW24278 (Telehealth and in-person in Deland).

*Georgia-CSW004395 (Telehealth only).

*California-122028 (Telehealth only).

*Washington-LW61594773 (Telehealth only).

bottom of page